This evening I had a chat online with a guy who wants his wife to start hotwifing.
This happens quite a lot, and I'm really pleased to say that Anna and I have helped a few couples along the road over the years.
The chat tonight got onto the subject of how to start "the conversation".
I told my new friend the story of how I got "the conversation" rolling with Anna, back in 2007. It's odd, now I think about it, that I never posted it on the blog before now.
He suggested that I should, so here's our chat in full.
I hope it might inspire some of you guys who are trying to work out how to get things started with your wives.
HW-hubby-to-be: can you suggest to me how to tell my wife?
HW-hubby-to-be: how do you tell her?
hotwifingexposed: ok
hotwifingexposed: here's what i did
hotwifingexposed: anna really likes Daniel Craig
hotwifingexposed: James Bond
hotwifingexposed: i'd been joking with her about it for weeks after we saw him in Casino Royale
hotwifingexposed: we started playing sex games
hotwifingexposed: where she would keep her eyes closed and I'd tease her that I was DC
hotwifingexposed: then we'd play the same game but I'd be DC and then Robbie Williams
hotwifingexposed: and she'd be "fucked" by DC, RW and me all in one night
hotwifingexposed: she loved the fantasy
HW-hubby-to-be: that’s a great idea
hotwifingexposed: we kept doing that for several weeks
hotwifingexposed: it would send her wild every time
hotwifingexposed: then she went away on a business trip
hotwifingexposed: to Belgium
hotwifingexposed: for about 3 nights
hotwifingexposed: before she went I told her that I'd read that Daniel Craig was filming in Brussels
hotwifingexposed: so she should look out for him
hotwifingexposed: it was all part of the game
hotwifingexposed: but she played along
HW-hubby-to-be: great
hotwifingexposed: the first night she was away I texted her to ask if she'd met DC yet
hotwifingexposed: second night I asked the same question and she said that he was in the same hotel and she'd seen him in the lobby
hotwifingexposed: (all part of the game)
hotwifingexposed: midnight on the third night she texted me to say she'd just been fucked by Daniel Craig in her hotel room
HW-hubby-to-be: So you are do it all like a game, clever
hotwifingexposed: the next night when she got home we had wild sex
hotwifingexposed: she asked me how I'd feel if she really had fucked DC
hotwifingexposed: I said that I'd love it
hotwifingexposed: "really?"
hotwifingexposed: 'yes, or any guy you fancied"
hotwifingexposed: that started “the conversation”
hotwifingexposed: she didn't believe me at first
HW-hubby-to-be: and the blog ?
HW-hubby-to-be: was the blog part of the same game ?
hotwifingexposed: i started writing the blog about the same time
hotwifingexposed: secretly at the time, didn’t tell her at first
hotwifingexposed: a few weeks later we had some friends here for dinner
hotwifingexposed: one of them was a single guy, a friend of mine that she'd always liked
hotwifingexposed: I'd told her to flirt with him to see how comfortable she was with the idea of really getting it on with another guy
hotwifingexposed: it was amazing
hotwifingexposed: she had a few glasses of wine
hotwifingexposed: so did he
hotwifingexposed: the chemistry was there
hotwifingexposed: by the end of the evening she was cuddled right up next to him with her hand on his arm
hotwifingexposed: he was clearly loving the attention
hotwifingexposed: but he didn't respond
hotwifingexposed: which was fine
hotwifingexposed: 9 people in the kitchen at the time!
hotwifingexposed: that night I told her what a natural flirt she was
hotwifingexposed: she said she'd really enjoyed being able to flirt with him, knowing that I wouldn't be upset
HW-hubby-to-be: You should put this in story and on blog, great thing
hotwifingexposed: "so what would you have done if he'd responded somewhere quiet in the house"
hotwifingexposed: "I'd probably have kissed him"
hotwifingexposed: we fucked madly that night too
hotwifingexposed: a few days later she asked me if I was serious about her fucking another man
HW-hubby-to-be: she asked first ?
hotwifingexposed: yes
hotwifingexposed: a few days after that we were sitting together at the computer writing an advert on a dating website
hotwifingexposed: a few days after that we were reading the replies together and I was suddenly struck by the realisation that my wife was seriously evaluating a list of guys with the intention of fucking one of them
hotwifingexposed: Jerry was in that list
hotwifingexposed: there's the story!
HW-hubby-to-be: great
HW-hubby-to-be: and wow
HW-hubby-to-be: you must put this on the blog
HW-hubby-to-be: and thank you very much
HW-hubby-to-be: i think you just showed me how to approach to my wife
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