Happy blogger!

Thank you so much for all the wonderful comments on my last post.

It's good to read that many of you value our approach to hotwife blogging, and it has certainly encouraged me to carry on in the same vein.

We will publish pics from time to time, but they will be in the minority of posts, as they have been before.

Anna left home about ten minutes ago heading for Jerry's place. It's their last meeting until after New Year because he's about to go away with his kids. I don't think she'll be there long, but I do expect that there will be some additional tenderness to their goodbyes tonight with almost a fortnight apart ahead of them.

When I got home from work this evening she told me that they'd been texting this afternoon about options for a meeting tonight. She said it was either 8.30pm at his place or 9.30pm at ours, and that he was keen for me to join in if he came to us. It was down to me to choose. A few years ago it would have been a no brainer - he'd have to be where I could see him! Perhaps a year ago I would have been easy either way - maybe even extra aroused at the idea of her having a solo with him. Tonight? I didn't hesitate. "Best you go to him please." Not because of any buzz I get from her solos with him these days (they the majority of their meetings, after all) but because it genuinely feels intrusive for me to be with them at any stage of a meeting now. I feel an awkwardness when he arrives at our place, in a way that I never used to, and - interestingly - in a way that he doesn't share. He's as laid back as he ever was. It's all inside my head, but I feel it clearly. I'd always prefer that they meet privately now, unless she or he were to insist otherwise.

Monet was quite matter-of-fact in her comment on my last post that Anna has switched "from being a Hotwife to poly-amorous wife (you and Jerry being her two husbands)." I don't really see it like that, in that Jerry leads his own very private and separate life away from us, and they see each other for just a few hours in total each month. But if there is any evidence of a drift towards polyamory in Anna's relationship with Jerry, for me it's all the my own feelings towards them as a "couple."

Anna always used to object if I ever used the word "relationship" when describing what she had with Jerry. She's totally relaxed about that word now. I find myself referring to them as "you two" when talking to him or her about their plans or meetings. It all seems quite natural. I treasure what she has with him as much as she does, because it symbolizes my love for her which is quite without attachment.

So maybe we are in a polyamorous sort of thing now. So what? It feels right. And Anna still gets to have an exciting new lover on the side!

Ben