Anna called me at about half past midnight.
Up until that point, things had not gone that well. Apparently the mystery guy had got so drunk that he couldn't get hard... although he did make Anna squirm with his mouth on her nipples and his tongue in her pussy. And she explored his uncut cock with her mouth.
Eventually, she persuaded him to leave her to sleep, and he promised to come back at 7am to finish the job properly.
At 8.10am I had this message:
"All well? Just going for breakfast. Love you. I had a visitor. All good. Xxxx"
That's all I know for now, but Anna has evidently crossed another new threshold in her hotwifing journey.
How fast things have changed!
Ben
Tuesday, 19 February 2013
Monday, 18 February 2013
Unfamiliar territory
Evening Anna fans
I have some real breaking news tonight.
Anna's in London on a business trip, staying over for one night.
When she got on the train early this morning, she had no plans for tonight. We had agreed that I'd spend some time today scouting for new lovers on our favourite dating sites, but that was more for some knowing titillation than in the expectation of anything real happening.
In fact, I did find a couple of real potentials who live in London and were showing interest in Anna for a possible meet tonight. But when she got to her hotel, logged on and checked out their profiles, neither of them appealed to her.
So she went downstairs to find dinner in her hotel.
I got down to some work, having put the kids to bed.
Half an hour later, at about 8.45, I had a text from Anna.
"Don't get too excited but I seem to have been picked up in the bar. He's joining me for dinner. x"
Then, "I don't really fancy him, but he's good company. x"
Me: "No way! Do you think he fancies his chances? x"
Half an hour later...
Anna: "Possibly, but he's kidding himself. He's already quite drunk. I will make a polite exit after dinner. He's great company in the meantime. x"
Me: "Has he made any advances? x"
Anna: "He's an exec for a tech company who travels around. Well educated, quite classy. Advances yes but not threatening. Friendly, but slurred speech! x"
Me: "Lol. So your wine goggles aren't working yet? x"
On hour later (10.20pm):
Anna: "Sorry, but we're on to kissing now. He wants to get in my knickers. What shall I do? x"
I was bowled over. The most forward Anna has been to date in her hotwifing career was what she slept with Ian on the first date, but that was after about 6 weeks of online chat and phone calls. Hardly a total stranger.
I started typing a response which was going to say, "Do whatever feels right."
Before I finished typing she sent another:
"Will use condoms. xxx"
Me: "Correct answer xxxxxx"
So we are both in unfamiliar territory!
It's 11.25pm as I type this, so just over an hour since she told me she was going to fuck a man she met less than two hours earlier...
Not sure what happens next in this kind of story, but I'll be sure to let you know!
Ben
I have some real breaking news tonight.
Anna's in London on a business trip, staying over for one night.
When she got on the train early this morning, she had no plans for tonight. We had agreed that I'd spend some time today scouting for new lovers on our favourite dating sites, but that was more for some knowing titillation than in the expectation of anything real happening.
In fact, I did find a couple of real potentials who live in London and were showing interest in Anna for a possible meet tonight. But when she got to her hotel, logged on and checked out their profiles, neither of them appealed to her.
So she went downstairs to find dinner in her hotel.
I got down to some work, having put the kids to bed.
Half an hour later, at about 8.45, I had a text from Anna.
"Don't get too excited but I seem to have been picked up in the bar. He's joining me for dinner. x"
Then, "I don't really fancy him, but he's good company. x"
Me: "No way! Do you think he fancies his chances? x"
Half an hour later...
Anna: "Possibly, but he's kidding himself. He's already quite drunk. I will make a polite exit after dinner. He's great company in the meantime. x"
Me: "Has he made any advances? x"
Anna: "He's an exec for a tech company who travels around. Well educated, quite classy. Advances yes but not threatening. Friendly, but slurred speech! x"
Me: "Lol. So your wine goggles aren't working yet? x"
On hour later (10.20pm):
Anna: "Sorry, but we're on to kissing now. He wants to get in my knickers. What shall I do? x"
I was bowled over. The most forward Anna has been to date in her hotwifing career was what she slept with Ian on the first date, but that was after about 6 weeks of online chat and phone calls. Hardly a total stranger.
I started typing a response which was going to say, "Do whatever feels right."
Before I finished typing she sent another:
"Will use condoms. xxx"
Me: "Correct answer xxxxxx"
So we are both in unfamiliar territory!
It's 11.25pm as I type this, so just over an hour since she told me she was going to fuck a man she met less than two hours earlier...
Not sure what happens next in this kind of story, but I'll be sure to let you know!
Ben
Sunday, 10 February 2013
Pondering the future
It's been three months since our last post.
Thanks to those of you who've posted comments or sent private messages.
No crises here - we've just been getting on with life, including hotwifing, and, in truth, wondering about the purpose of continuing with the blog since our journey has levelled off onto its current plateau.
Most of the feedback I get about this blog suggests that our readers can be split into two main groups: those interested in the emotional and practical realities of moving into hotwifing, and those who enjoy the titillation of our accounts and pictures of real hotwifing action.
These days, there's not so much to write about the journey. Anna and Jerry have settled into a loving and very happy long term sexual relationship. It is exactly that - sexual - because it is still clandestine and so it is not easy or feasible for them to spend time together doing other things. They talk about how nice it would be to go out to dinner together, for example, but it's never happened for fear of starting rumours.
We have a longer term plan to go away with him for a weekend to his holiday home, but that has proven logistically impossible for us so far in terms of finding a time that fits with work and family commitments. It's so much easier for Anna and Jerry to meet at his place for a few hours of intense sexual pleasure. Thankfully, there's been no decline in the intensity of that sexual pleasure, even in the sixth year of their relationship. Anna describes a sort of sexual electricity between them that she's never encountered with anyone else. It's so strong that it prevents them from being able to sleep in the same bed. Each attempt at a night together, of which there have been about a dozen now, has been a story of dozing and fucking, with neither of them able to get any proper sleep.
As to the stories and pictures we used to publish, that's also not so easy these days. Your devoted cameraman is never in the room when the action happens these days, because it's usually at Jerry's place while I'm at home with the kids. This is mainly for practical reasons - when our kids were young enough that they could be guaranteed to sleep though even the noisiest of Jerry/Anna simultaneous orgasms, we had little to worry about in him coming to us during an evening to see Anna. So I have no new pictures or video of them in action since early last year! Which is fine by me - the vast library that I built up from August 2007 to early 2012 is enough to satisfy any nostalgic urges!
The stories were at their best when they were about something new - a new location, position, or lover, for example. Anna is open about the fact that her meetings with Jerry offer little new to write about these days. They fuck at his place, in his bed, in the same few positions that do it so well for them.
So, in the absence of interesting developments in the journey, exciting stories of novel sexual encounters, or pictures of my wife enjoying one of her lovers... what do we have to offer here? I'm not sure.
The one thing that will potentially create a new narrative is the fact that Jerry is likely to leave the UK for good this year to live permanently at his home in the Mediterranean. He doesn't want that to mean the end of his relationship with Anna - he will be back from time to time to attend to his various businesses here, and he really wants her (with me) to visit him out there. But, realistically, they both know that this will probably mean Anna finding a new lover this year. She's not interested in reviving things with any of the other lovers she's had since starting out as a hotwife, so we're likely to be back into searching online. Oh, the joys of being a hotwife's researcher!
I hope the future holds as much sexual variety as Anna wants, with Jerry in the background all the time as her long term lover.
If exciting things do happen, we will update you here.
Ben
Thanks to those of you who've posted comments or sent private messages.
No crises here - we've just been getting on with life, including hotwifing, and, in truth, wondering about the purpose of continuing with the blog since our journey has levelled off onto its current plateau.
Most of the feedback I get about this blog suggests that our readers can be split into two main groups: those interested in the emotional and practical realities of moving into hotwifing, and those who enjoy the titillation of our accounts and pictures of real hotwifing action.
These days, there's not so much to write about the journey. Anna and Jerry have settled into a loving and very happy long term sexual relationship. It is exactly that - sexual - because it is still clandestine and so it is not easy or feasible for them to spend time together doing other things. They talk about how nice it would be to go out to dinner together, for example, but it's never happened for fear of starting rumours.
We have a longer term plan to go away with him for a weekend to his holiday home, but that has proven logistically impossible for us so far in terms of finding a time that fits with work and family commitments. It's so much easier for Anna and Jerry to meet at his place for a few hours of intense sexual pleasure. Thankfully, there's been no decline in the intensity of that sexual pleasure, even in the sixth year of their relationship. Anna describes a sort of sexual electricity between them that she's never encountered with anyone else. It's so strong that it prevents them from being able to sleep in the same bed. Each attempt at a night together, of which there have been about a dozen now, has been a story of dozing and fucking, with neither of them able to get any proper sleep.
As to the stories and pictures we used to publish, that's also not so easy these days. Your devoted cameraman is never in the room when the action happens these days, because it's usually at Jerry's place while I'm at home with the kids. This is mainly for practical reasons - when our kids were young enough that they could be guaranteed to sleep though even the noisiest of Jerry/Anna simultaneous orgasms, we had little to worry about in him coming to us during an evening to see Anna. So I have no new pictures or video of them in action since early last year! Which is fine by me - the vast library that I built up from August 2007 to early 2012 is enough to satisfy any nostalgic urges!
The stories were at their best when they were about something new - a new location, position, or lover, for example. Anna is open about the fact that her meetings with Jerry offer little new to write about these days. They fuck at his place, in his bed, in the same few positions that do it so well for them.
So, in the absence of interesting developments in the journey, exciting stories of novel sexual encounters, or pictures of my wife enjoying one of her lovers... what do we have to offer here? I'm not sure.
The one thing that will potentially create a new narrative is the fact that Jerry is likely to leave the UK for good this year to live permanently at his home in the Mediterranean. He doesn't want that to mean the end of his relationship with Anna - he will be back from time to time to attend to his various businesses here, and he really wants her (with me) to visit him out there. But, realistically, they both know that this will probably mean Anna finding a new lover this year. She's not interested in reviving things with any of the other lovers she's had since starting out as a hotwife, so we're likely to be back into searching online. Oh, the joys of being a hotwife's researcher!
I hope the future holds as much sexual variety as Anna wants, with Jerry in the background all the time as her long term lover.
If exciting things do happen, we will update you here.
Ben
Thursday, 8 November 2012
When the exotic becomes mundane
Sometimes I have to stop and pinch myself.
It's easy when you've been living a very unorthodox marital lifestyle for over five years to make the mistake of thinking that what you do is anything like most people's idea of "normal".
It isn't "normal." But for us, it's become the norm. Anna is very comfortable in her relationship with Jerry, and yet they manage to retain a level of excitement in their sex life together that makes it all worthwhile for her.
So we have recently been trying very hard to remind ourselves as often as possible how lucky we are to have found a way of making something so exotic work so well.
Anna and Jerry now meet about twice a week, on average. Every once in a while, maybe once a month, she's been spending a night with him. Every time she sees him, she comes home to me ready for explosive marital sex - the kind that ten-year-married couples aren't supposed to have.
It is certainly true that she has sexual encounters with him almost as often as with me now, and it's also true to say that those encounters typically involve at least one fuck, usually lasting quite a long time, and usually more than one orgasm... so it's almost certain that she has had more orgasms with her lover than with me over the last six months. And there is no doubt that her pussy has been full of his cock for more minutes of her life in that same period than it has of mine. So it would be true to say - and we have often acknowledged this to each other (usually in the throes of passionate sex) - that Jerry is now her primary mate.
There are clearly followers of our blog who have written our marriage off now. Not so fast.
My wife is a very unusual creature. She is perfectly capable of maintaining different but complementary relationships with two men at the same time. In fact, she did this at various times of her life before we married, including the phase in which I was her lover towards the end of her long relationship with her previous boyfriend. The difference now? I'm her rock, her life partner, and the father of her beloved children. We have it good, in all respects, and there is not even a hint that she is dissatisfied with her marital lot. Maybe if I were a loser, not earning well, not able to keep the kids in private school, not able to provide the family with two beautiful homes and all the adventures we could wish for... maybe if were a slob around the house who didn't cook, iron, clean, care for the kids... maybe then she might question why she stays with me when her lover is such an awesome alpha specimen. Maybe if he were looking for a life partner, then there might be a risk. And things can change. But she's been over five years with Jerry now, and she hasn't budged one inch in the way she talks to him, talks about him, reacts to his messages. We have a happy equilibrium.
It could just be that we have this thing about as perfect as it can be right now.
Feels like it from here.
Sorry if this post has sounded smug or even defensive, but I know there are a lot of readers here who follow our blog to see whether hotwifing can be a really sustainable option, and it would therefore be wrong of me not to provide the positive side when comments are sceptical.
I'm here to tell you that it can work brilliantly long term, but I think you need a hell of a lot of luck. We've had that with Jerry, no doubt.
Ben
It's easy when you've been living a very unorthodox marital lifestyle for over five years to make the mistake of thinking that what you do is anything like most people's idea of "normal".
It isn't "normal." But for us, it's become the norm. Anna is very comfortable in her relationship with Jerry, and yet they manage to retain a level of excitement in their sex life together that makes it all worthwhile for her.
So we have recently been trying very hard to remind ourselves as often as possible how lucky we are to have found a way of making something so exotic work so well.
Anna and Jerry now meet about twice a week, on average. Every once in a while, maybe once a month, she's been spending a night with him. Every time she sees him, she comes home to me ready for explosive marital sex - the kind that ten-year-married couples aren't supposed to have.
It is certainly true that she has sexual encounters with him almost as often as with me now, and it's also true to say that those encounters typically involve at least one fuck, usually lasting quite a long time, and usually more than one orgasm... so it's almost certain that she has had more orgasms with her lover than with me over the last six months. And there is no doubt that her pussy has been full of his cock for more minutes of her life in that same period than it has of mine. So it would be true to say - and we have often acknowledged this to each other (usually in the throes of passionate sex) - that Jerry is now her primary mate.
There are clearly followers of our blog who have written our marriage off now. Not so fast.
My wife is a very unusual creature. She is perfectly capable of maintaining different but complementary relationships with two men at the same time. In fact, she did this at various times of her life before we married, including the phase in which I was her lover towards the end of her long relationship with her previous boyfriend. The difference now? I'm her rock, her life partner, and the father of her beloved children. We have it good, in all respects, and there is not even a hint that she is dissatisfied with her marital lot. Maybe if I were a loser, not earning well, not able to keep the kids in private school, not able to provide the family with two beautiful homes and all the adventures we could wish for... maybe if were a slob around the house who didn't cook, iron, clean, care for the kids... maybe then she might question why she stays with me when her lover is such an awesome alpha specimen. Maybe if he were looking for a life partner, then there might be a risk. And things can change. But she's been over five years with Jerry now, and she hasn't budged one inch in the way she talks to him, talks about him, reacts to his messages. We have a happy equilibrium.
It could just be that we have this thing about as perfect as it can be right now.
Feels like it from here.
Sorry if this post has sounded smug or even defensive, but I know there are a lot of readers here who follow our blog to see whether hotwifing can be a really sustainable option, and it would therefore be wrong of me not to provide the positive side when comments are sceptical.
I'm here to tell you that it can work brilliantly long term, but I think you need a hell of a lot of luck. We've had that with Jerry, no doubt.
Ben
Saturday, 22 September 2012
This stuff is counter-intuitive
My wife spent last night with another man.
Our marriage is thriving.
Who'da thought?
We have friends whose marriages have either broken down in recent years or are heading that way. Their problems are various, but in each case I can say that there is possessiveness at the heart of their relationship. Either in one direction, or in both.
It's not much evidence to go on, but I have a feeling that there's a connection between the unconventional outlook that hotwifing requires of both parties in a marriage, and happiness and stability in that relationship.
Anyone have any observations to support or rubbish my theory?!
Ben
Our marriage is thriving.
Who'da thought?
We have friends whose marriages have either broken down in recent years or are heading that way. Their problems are various, but in each case I can say that there is possessiveness at the heart of their relationship. Either in one direction, or in both.
It's not much evidence to go on, but I have a feeling that there's a connection between the unconventional outlook that hotwifing requires of both parties in a marriage, and happiness and stability in that relationship.
Anyone have any observations to support or rubbish my theory?!
Ben
Saturday, 4 August 2012
5 years of hotwifing
Today marks the 5th anniversary of my wife's first fuck with her first extramarital lover, Jerry.
And I've just bathed my cock in the same lover's semen inside my wife's pussy, following their brief but exciting anniversary fuck.
All's good here.
Ben
And I've just bathed my cock in the same lover's semen inside my wife's pussy, following their brief but exciting anniversary fuck.
All's good here.
Ben
Sunday, 29 July 2012
"I am getting royally fucked! x"
Text from Anna at 6 minutes past midnight.
That's good enough for me.
Off to bed now.
Don't believe I'll be able to keep my hand off my cock...
Ben
That's good enough for me.
Off to bed now.
Don't believe I'll be able to keep my hand off my cock...
Ben
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